Originally from Sausalito, California, I grew up in a Mexican Catholic family, attending Catholic school until I was 18. During this time, I struggled to accept and embrace my bisexuality and unconventional relationship orientation. I’ve always known I was queer and polyamorous, but I didn’t have the vocabulary or understanding of it for many years.

A chance conversation with a polyamorist on a plane to San Diego opened my eyes to what’s possible. Suddenly, I had words to explain what I was feeling, and I learned that other relationship structures and styles are out there. More importantly, I realized I wasn’t alone!

In many ways I’ve always been a coach, healer and a guide. I worked as a sailing coach for 7 years, helping kids achieve their competitive sailing dreams. I later graduated from UC Berkeley with a B.A. in Political Science. In 2014, I moved to Berlin, Germany and have lived here since.

After working for various international NGOs, I suffered through a mental health crisis compounded by burnout from the 9-5. I realized I wasn’t living authentically and decided to make radical changes in my life. I retrained as a life coach, counselor and Reiki energy healer.

Throughout my journey, I’ve practiced polyamory within all my relationships, learning many deep and often difficult lessons along the way. I’ve also experienced many euphoric moments and so much positive growth.

The road hasn’t been easy or linear, but I’m grateful for the challenges and for being on this path.