Couples Polyamory & Non-Monogamy Coaching
Support in Berlin & Online
Opening your relationship or maintaining an existing non-monogamous relationship can be challenging but also deeply rewarding.
Sometimes we need a little help along the way. Seeking support as you navigate the complexities of open relationships can go a long way to creating and sustaining thriving, secure and grounded dynamics.
A Dedicated Holistic Container for Your Relationship's Evolution
Navigating healthy non-monogamous relationships is rarely just a logistical or mental shift; it is a profound transformation of the self and the collective. My work with couples is a synthesis of evidence-based structure and spiritual depth.
I bring the research-backed approach of the Gottman Method to help you identify and shift old patterns of conflict and get really good at communication and sustaining long term relationships - but we don't stop there. We integrate somatic awareness to track the body’s "Yes" and "No," and add a mindful, holistic perspective that is rooted in Buddhist psychology in order to ensure that your expansion is guided by presence, compassion, and true alignment.
How I Approach Couples Coaching
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Person Centered
I believe that you and your partners are the experts of your own lives and relationship(s). I deeply value individual agency and freedom within your connections, as well as the delicate dance between independence, commitment, and interdependence. As your coach, I provide a safe container to explore your dynamic and navigate complex emotions, but I will not tell you how your relationship "should" look or what structure to choose.
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Holistic
I look at all aspects of your partnership: from the psychological and cognitive to the somatic, relational, and spiritual. Beyond the dynamic between you, I consider the larger context of your lives: your wider network, your community, and your connection to the land and the world around you. By addressing these systemic layers alongside your daily behavioral patterns, I help you create a blueprint for a relationship that feels grounded and aligned with the entirety of your experience.
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Integrative
I draw on a wide range of disciplines to tailor an approach that fits your specific needs. My work is rooted in formal training and lineage, weaving together the research-backed structure of the Gottman Method with Buddhist psychology, mindfulness, and the Pantarei Approach. By bridging these diverse traditions with Transformational Coaching, I help you move through friction and find a sustainable rhythm together, one that honors both your individual growth and your collective connection.
Who I support
Couples Opening Up to Non-Monogamy
I support couples moving from monogamy into their first experiences with non-monogamy. I help you create a safe container to explore boundaries and build a foundation of trust before you take those first steps into a new way of relating.
Established Non-Monogamous Couples
I work with partners who have been open for a while but are navigating a new season. Whether you are dealing with a shift in your dynamic or simply wanting to refresh your agreements, I help you deepen your long-term security.
Polyamorous Dynamics and Polycules
I facilitate sessions for triads, quads, or partners in complex dynamics looking to refine their collective agreements. I focus on the health of the whole, ensuring everyone feels seen and the communication remains clear across all connections.
Breaking the "Stuck" Cycle
For those who feel they are talking in circles and need a new way to find grounding together. If your usual way of resolving conflict has stopped working, we use somatic and mindful tools to help you break the loop and find a path forward.
Working Together
What to Expect in Our Sessions
I offer 90 minute sessions to allow enough space for everyone to feel seen and heard. I will invite each of you to share your perspective on the situation at hand. Each person will have the space to express their side of the conflicts, impasses, or challenges you are facing.
Our goal is to move beyond just talking and into a state of greater understanding and compassion. Together, we will find practical, grounded strategies to help you move forward. These sessions are also a supportive space for those who are new to exploring non-monogamy and want guidance with difficult emotions like jealousy, fear, or anxiety. No topic is off limits or too taboo.
Investment & Logistics
Individual Couple Sessions: 135€ per 90 minute session.
Coaching Packages: I offer coaching packages for those who want to commit to a deeper process of transformation and long term growth. View package options and rates.
Format: Sessions are held via Google Meet or in-person at my space in Berlin Neukölln.
Multi-Partner Sessions: For polycules or groups of three or more, please contact me directly for custom scheduling and rates.
Coaching Packages for Couples
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3 Sessions
Start your relationship coaching journey with focused tools, advice and guidance for clarity and connection.
Investment: 3 sessions for €390 (€130/session)
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5 Sessions
Build momentum and deepen your skills for thriving, sustainable polyamory and other forms of non/monogamy.
Investment: 5 sessions for €600 (€120/session)
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7 Sessions
Go deeper and commit to lasting transformation and integration in your relationship(s).
Investment: 7 sessions for €770 (€110/session)
Book your couples coaching package here
Ready When You Are
You don’t have to have it all figured out to begin.
Whether you're feeling uncertain, overwhelmed, curious, or hopeful, this is a space where all of you is welcome.
Starting something new, especially when it involves vulnerability, can be intimidating.
That’s why I offer a free 30-minute intro call, so you can ask questions, get a feel for how I work, and take your time deciding what feels right for you.
If you're ready to book a session or dive into a package with your partner(s), you'll find all options on this page.
And if you're not quite sure yet?
That’s okay too. Just taking the step to be here is a powerful beginning.